Monday, May 18, 2009

Single and Pregnant

Well as you already know I'm married BUT as I get further along my fingers have gotten fatter and my skin dryer which makes wearing my wedding rings uncomfortable. I stopped wearing my engagement ring a couple of months ago but unless I want to lather up soap or lotion to put my band on its not going to happen. Well as I walk around with a protruding belly I get a lot of looks from older woman and I can just imagine them thinking "Humph! Another black pregnant single girl!" I shouldn't worry or care what people think but it bothers me! But it kinda does! I mean DH and I have been married for 5 years because we wanted to be ready. When people (including parents!) pressured and asked us why we weren't with child we knew we wanted to BOTH be ready in all aspects. I feel proud that we waited and God blessed us when He saw fit so maybe I want to share that with the passerby in the street and a ring does so in a way with no words. Oh well, I got two options. Wait till baby is born or wear cz's lol. I'm seriously considering the latter! My rings are gold so maybe I'll wear silver (platinum) for the next 4 months lol.

I have attached a picture of my pregnant belly at 19 weeks!

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